The Wedding Shoe Game is one of the most popular and entertaining activities at wedding receptions. It’s a light-hearted, humorous way for the newlyweds to showcase their knowledge of each other and give their guests a glimpse into their relationship. Simple to set up and always a crowd-pleaser, the Wedding Shoe Game is a must-have addition to your wedding itinerary. Here’s everything you need to know about how to play.
The game is typically played after the meal, when the reception is in full swing, and everyone is ready to have a bit of fun. To start, the bride and groom sit back-to-back in chairs in the center of the room. Each of them removes their shoes, swapping one shoe with their partner so that they each hold one of their own shoes and one of their partner’s shoes. This way, they have a shoe to represent themselves and a shoe to represent their partner.
Once the couple is seated, a host or emcee—often the DJ, a friend, or a family member—asks a series of questions about the bride and groom’s relationship, personalities, or habits. The newlyweds respond by holding up the shoe of the person they think best fits the answer to the question. For example, if the question is “Who is the better cook?” and the bride thinks it’s the groom, she’ll hold up his shoe. If the groom thinks it’s him as well, he’ll hold up his own shoe. The mismatched answers are often the most hilarious moments, providing entertainment for the guests and giving everyone insight into the couple’s dynamic.
The success of the game relies on asking engaging and fun questions. It’s best to prepare a mix of questions that are lighthearted, romantic, and slightly silly to keep the energy lively. Here’s a list of good questions to ask during the Wedding Shoe Game:
- Who was the first to have a crush?
- Who made the first move?
- Who said “I love you” first?
- Who is funnier?
- Who is more creative?
- Who is the better dancer?
- Who is the better driver?
- Who spends more time on their phone?
- Who is more likely to start an argument?
- Who is better at keeping secrets?
- Who takes longer to get ready?
- Who is more romantic?
- Who is the first to apologize after a fight?
- Who has the crazier family?
- Who is more likely to cry during a movie?
- Who spends more money?
- Who plans the best date nights?
- Who’s more adventurous?
- Who’s the better cook?
- Who’s more likely to forget an anniversary?
- Who’s more likely to get lost?
- Who’s the bigger baby when they’re sick?
- Who is better at keeping surprises?
- Who is more likely to order takeout?
- Who’s the better singer?
- Who’s more likely to binge-watch TV shows?
- Who has better taste in music?
- Who has better taste in TV shows?
- Who’s better at saving money?
- Who’s more likely to overspend on shopping?
- Who’s the bigger sports fan?
- Who’s more likely to plan a spontaneous trip?
- Who’s the better storyteller?
- Who’s more likely to make a big purchase without asking?
- Who’s more likely to forget their keys?
- Who’s the night owl?
- Who’s the early bird?
- Who’s more likely to eat dessert for breakfast?
- Who’s more likely to lose their phone?
- Who’s more competitive?
- Who’s the better photographer?
- Who’s more likely to sing in the shower?
- Who’s more likely to take selfies?
- Who’s the bigger procrastinator?
- Who’s more likely to plan a surprise party?
- Who’s more likely to oversleep?
- Who’s more likely to go on a shopping spree?
- Who’s more likely to get a speeding ticket?
- Who’s the better gift giver?
- Who’s more likely to laugh at the wrong moment?
- Who’s more likely to lose their wallet?
- Who’s the better holiday planner?
- Who’s more likely to forget someone’s birthday?
- Who is better at fixing things around the house?
- Who’s more likely to ask for directions?
- Who’s more likely to prank someone?
- Who is more organized?
- Who is the bigger social butterfly?
- Who’s more likely to get a tattoo?
- Who is more likely to sing karaoke?
- Who’s better at handling finances?
- Who’s more likely to trip over nothing?
- Who is more likely to remember important dates?
- Who’s the bigger animal lover?
- Who’s more likely to win a board game?
- Who’s better at giving advice?
- Who’s more likely to fall asleep during a movie?
- Who’s the better swimmer?
- Who is more tech-savvy?
- Who is more likely to cook a gourmet meal?
- Who is more likely to leave a mess?
- Who is more likely to be late?
- Who’s the bigger coffee lover?
- Who is more likely to write a love letter?
- Who’s the bigger bookworm?
- Who’s more likely to win in an argument?
- Who is more likely to forget where they parked?
- Who is more likely to tell a corny joke?
- Who’s the better problem solver?
- Who’s more likely to enjoy a romantic movie?
- Who is more likely to do DIY projects?
- Who is more likely to bring home a stray pet?
- Who is more likely to plan a family reunion?
- Who is better at wrapping gifts?
- Who is more likely to binge on snacks?
- Who is more likely to have a sweet tooth?
- Who is more likely to build a snowman?
- Who is more likely to lose their passport?
- Who is more likely to talk during a movie?
- Who is more likely to throw a surprise party?
- Who is more likely to start a new hobby?
- Who is more likely to run a marathon?
- Who is more likely to organize a road trip?
- Who is more likely to befriend a stranger?
- Who is more likely to sing along in the car?
- Who is more likely to stay up late working on a project?
- Who is more likely to host a dinner party?
- Who is more likely to win a trivia game?
- Who is more likely to remember the wedding day’s tiny details?
- Who is your favorite person? (Last question)
While these questions will undoubtedly keep your guests laughing and engaged, it’s important to ensure they are appropriate for your audience. Avoid anything overly embarrassing or too personal that might make the couple uncomfortable or alienate certain guests.
The game usually lasts around 10-15 minutes, but the duration can be adjusted based on how many questions you want to ask. A skilled host will keep the pace brisk and fun, ensuring that the energy stays high and the audience remains entertained.
No special equipment is required beyond two chairs and the couple’s shoes, making this game incredibly easy to set up. If you want to add a little extra flair, you can customize the chairs or create a backdrop to make the game’s setting more visually appealing. Some couples also like to provide paddles or signs with their names instead of using shoes, which can make for easier visibility for the guests.
The Wedding Shoe Game is a wonderful way to break the ice, get everyone laughing, and celebrate the unique bond between the bride and groom. Whether your questions highlight their differences or confirm how well they know each other, the game is sure to be a highlight of your wedding day. It’s simple, charming, and guaranteed to leave everyone with smiles and laughter as they celebrate your special moment.
